Associated with the word divorce, but that seems to be what is happening.
The man that I have always loved and trusted completely violated that love and trust. At some point he decided that it would be the right thing to do to have an affair and continually lie about it.
As I recover from this I thought that I would write about it. I still find myself in disbelief. After 34 years of marriage I thought that we had managed to get through the stressful times. As a friend says "Isn't this the time of our lives in which we discover who we are". That was like a light bulb going off on in my head. That is what I thought I was doing. Now I am being forced into a life I didn't want.
